Mixed Marriages: When Only One of You is a Vegetarian
Though a lot of the ideas seem like common sense to me, this article is worth reading if you’re in a relationship where one person is an ardent meat-eater and the other is a vegetarian or vegan. I’ve been lucky in that respect, as my wife eats meat but has absolutely no problem eating the vegetarian meals I make at home. We almost never have meat in the house, and when we do, it’s usually leftovers from one of her meals at a restaurant. But I can imagine that other people aren’t as lucky… either the vegetarian is very aggressive in promoting their belief or the non-vegetarian feels like they’re being attacked by their significant other’s choice to abstain from animal products. I like the line that advises non-vegetarians to “recognize that if you eat vegetarian food you are not compromising any principle or belief, while your spouse would be doing so if she/he ate meat.”
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johanna
04|Feb|2002 1carol adams has a new book out, something like “living in a meat-eating world, a survival guide for vegetarians.” i’ve heard good stuff so far about it, except for the fact that she says all meat eaters are “blocked vegetarians”–seems a little condescending to me.
Robert
07|Feb|2002 2Any relationship in which one person cannot respect the other’s choice to (not) eat meat does not need to exist. It’s simple relationship logic.
ethicalsingles.com
29|Apr|2008 3If you are a single veggie or vegan you can sign-up to the ethicalsingles.com online dating service to help find yourself a similar meat-free partner.
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